Believe it or not, most women do not leave their men because they have stopped loving them. They don´t pull away because you are not attractive to her anymore. Most of the time, it is not usually anything you have done that is pushed her away. Believe it or not, there is an old country song that has it right for the most part. It is not what you did. It is all those things you did not do.
Now, don´t get me wrong. I am not saying it is all your fault!
I am a firm believer that it takes two to tango. She never spoke up and told you what she needed from you. But, really, how often do you tell her what you need her to do for you?
While the song may be a few decades old by now, there is wisdom in those old lyrics. If you are trying to make your relationship work and put a little bit of the love back in it, then you need to remember all the things he forgot.
Tell Her You Love Her
Don´t take it for granted that she knows. Tell her. Show her. Shout it out from the rooftops, but make sure she knows, without a doubt, that you only have eyes for her.
Listen to What She has to Say
This one is hard. Men and women often live in different worlds when it comes to language. She starts talking and sometimes your eyes just glaze over with this faraway look. She notices this and it hurts. You are going to have to really listen, like the man in the Klondike commercial. It will impress her and make her feel like she really is important to you.
Have a PLAN!==>Go for the Making Up Magic!
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